November 25, 2011

Because I am a Woman

For the past few weeks, I have been reading a book titled 'Why Men Marry Bitches?'. Obviously I don't know how i ended up buying this book and particulary why i am reading it till the end. well, i can't deny because my main reason is to know the bitches tricks so that i could make men marry me, but after i read chapter by chapter, it seems like making myself a bitch and getting married is not my objective anymore.

I would like to share it because there are many breakups happen surround me, including myself. Women are crying for guys who dumped them! Women begs for the man who leave them, and i wanted those woman to know that changes often happen, so please don't be sad by a small clinge that happens in your life! You still have plenty of pages to write so don't stuck your story only on the first chapters of your book. Divorces happen everywhere! You should be glad because there are plenty more you can select up front.

When problem comes between you and your partner, woman always think that it was their fault that guys dumped them and they have to change themselves to make guys love them again! One thing that many women forgot is if they think and do like that then their identity will never be shown anymore. When you want a guy marry you, you have to make him fall for you, and of course making him fall in love is to let him know who you really are, and when they see something beneath you, they will marry you!

You don't have to act cute, feminim, soft or sexy, because appearance only lasts for the first 30 seconds. Let him see what's inside you, because if he doesn't love you, it's not because you are not enough, but it is because he doesn't understand the beauty lies in you thus he is not what you've been looking for.

In Sherry Argov book, she taught me how we gotta do to make men marry us indeed, but what's more importantly is she taught me to be WHO I AM, and i'm glad i did. If a man can not take care of the lady, then the other gentleman will. Sherry did not teach me to win a man heart by understand them, loving them or taking care of them, but she taught me TO LOVE MYSELF, because man loves woman who can takecare of herself and not depending on man.

I learnt to become a woman. A woman who is capable to take risk and make decisions. She did not say a woman does not need a man, she have never said tha!t but she wanted us to be as strong and independent as what we should be because We are a woman.

So,
when a guy forgets you, then don't remember him.
when a guy hates you, don't you try to love him.
when a guy leaves you, Please don't you ever stay.

Never ask a guy to marry you, because if he wants to, he will. but if he doesn't, then the others will.


P.S: recommend to read Sherry Argov book!!!

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